The Restorative Self-Assessment Center

Understand the patterns that shape the way you think, feel, relate, and respond to the world.

Our assessments go beyond identifying symptoms. They explore the protective adaptations, nervous system responses, and emotional patterns that may be influencing your daily life—helping you better understand yourself and identify meaningful next steps toward healing.

How it Works

  1. Answer a few questions.

    Each assessment takes about 3 to 5 minutes.

  2. Learn about your results.

    Receive a personalized explanation of what your responses may suggest.

  3. Explore your next steps.

    Whether that's learning more, trying a new coping strategy, or scheduling therapy, we'll point you toward helpful resources.

Choose an Assessment

Personalized results

Immediate feedback

No email required

Is Trauma Still Affecting You?

Past experiences don't have to be dramatic to leave a lasting impact. This assessment explores whether unresolved experiences may still be influencing your emotions, relationships, and nervous system today. Many people are surprised to discover that everyday struggles can sometimes be connected to experiences they never considered traumatic.

5 minutes

20 questions

Private & anonymous

You’ll explore:

  • Emotional regulation

  • Relationship patterns

  • Stress responses

  • Self-beliefs

  • Avoidance patterns

This assessment is educational and is not intended to provide a diagnosis.

What’s Your Default Survival Response?

Discover the protective patterns your nervous system relies on during stress and learn how responses like fight, flight, freeze, and fawn may still be influencing your daily life.

5 minutes

20 questions

Private & anonymous

You’ll explore:

  • Understand how your nervous system learned to protect you.

  • Discover your primary survival response and how it influences daily life.

  • Explore practical steps to move beyond automatic survival patterns.

This assessment is educational and is not intended to provide a diagnosis.

So… Your Significant Other Called You A Narcissist?

This assessment explores several evidence-informed explanations for behaviors that are often misunderstood, helping you better understand your interpersonal patterns through a compassionate, trauma-informed lens.

8-10 minutes

35 questions

Private & anonymous

You’ll explore:

  • Whether your responses reflect trauma and attachment influences, relationship dynamics, healthy boundary development, or interpersonal patterns worth exploring.

  • How self-reflection, empathy, and communication influence your relationships

  • Whether certain interpersonal patterns may be worth exploring further

  • Practical insights to help you better understand yourself and your relationships

This assessment is educational and is not intended to provide a diagnosis.